There are facts in a person’s life that he cannot explain even to himself. Although these facts may not seem that special to others, they can be difficult issues when considered in terms of human psychology. For some, it is a simple issue, for others it is a big problem or even an unbearable problem. This is also the case for women. There are facts that they cannot even admit to themselves. Although these facts are handled in different categories, the problem for most of them is common. However, in their conversations to women, they either do not share these situations, or vice versa. This is due to embarrassment, finding common ground and instinct to tell what he wants to be true. For these situations, it can also be called to show imagination.
Violence Against Women
Among the issues women are most ashamed of and avoided talking about is being exposed to violence. Violence is the worst treatment of women. The woman avoids sharing this treatment with her fellows. Because if he shares it, he will be afraid of being sorry, being gossip material and looking for faults. One group in which violence is not shared is women, especially mothers. Since the woman thinks that her mother will be upset, she always experiences violence within herself.
One of the issues women cannot talk about is rape. The biggest dimension of sexual violence is undoubtedly rape. However, in our country, which is a patriarchal society, rape is among the subjects that are not talked about even due to customs. When women are raped, they are labeled in a special way, and if this issue has come to light in some way, it is somehow resolved and closed forever. The heaviest thing in this regard is that no matter how the issue is resolved, the heaviest cost will still be the woman’s payment.
Looking Like Happy When You’re Not Happy
All women necessarily play polyannism. The subject that hurts them is not always physical. Sometimes they experience painful events spiritually. This situation is being deceived. Being deceived is the biggest problem that women cannot express and seek fault with themselves. However, they must appear to be happy with their loved ones, and especially their children. While the only person with whom they can talk about this issue is their spouse, they do not dare to talk to them because they cannot face some facts.